Ha! I would love to see a copy of that! That sounds scary.
Why on earth would elders need to see that?
Make sure you hold to a promise? Or maybe theres better stuff like Birth control consults (for non married people) or abortion records.
That would be a red flag.
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blood card
by 4digitcode ini went through my 10 year stay in the truth not knowing a whole lot about any of the teachings i realize.
i knew of them, knew the rules cause i read them all the time in the km,wt,awake....but i couldn't explain most of my beliefs with the bible.
i entered the faith at 13 years old, on my own and guess what at 13 years old with no parents pressuring me i really didn't like studying.
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Avatars
by Vernon Williams into all,.
i wish a thread would start where in everyone would explain why they picked the avatar they have.
i have not found one, yet..... v.
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Inattentive elders...anyone else experience this?
by B_Deserter ineveryone always talks about the elders and people in the congregation coming around to see why you aren't at meetings...but i've never experienced this.
i've been away from the meetings for months, and not one single elder has called me.
my friends occasionally call me but never bring up my lackluster attendance.
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I pioneered for years, and just severed service and meetings with no notice....that was a year or so ago, I haven't had any contact, and they know where I am.
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by 4digitcode ini went through my 10 year stay in the truth not knowing a whole lot about any of the teachings i realize.
i knew of them, knew the rules cause i read them all the time in the km,wt,awake....but i couldn't explain most of my beliefs with the bible.
i entered the faith at 13 years old, on my own and guess what at 13 years old with no parents pressuring me i really didn't like studying.
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You know...that is a good point. I think I will take that out of my wallet right now. Surgery I can decide....in an emergency I would prefer an alternative, but I wouldn't know how to express that.
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How Honest Are You Really???
by minimus inhere's the scenario: you buy an item and it's on sale for 10% off the original price.
a new cashier charges you, instead of 10% off, 10 cents!
this happened to a woman who bought a leather coat among other things and when she reviewed her slip she knew absolutely that the new cashier messed up.
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I would undoubtedly repair the error. I have a phobia of lying as it creates problems later on in a dreaded chain reaction.
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Going under the knife tomorrow morning :S
by Elsewhere ini'm not a big fan of surgery.
i always exhaust all non-surgical options before doing it.
i know enough about medicine to know that surgery is effectively a controlled injury... and that makes me nervous.
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Ouch, that sounds painful. It will be worth it though.
Buy a hand held video game system (nintendo DS). It will help your recovery as next to, painkillers, it is the best pain distraction. -
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Why is Talking to a Witness so Hard?
by Perry inhere's my take for one of the reasons: jw's perceive anyone who asks the wrong questions as a hater of jehovah and a persecuter.
they think jesus had them in mind here: .
john 17: 14. i have given them thy word; and the world hath hated them, because they are not of the world, even as i am not of the world.
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I agree with that point. I would talk about wonderful, intelligent people that I know and then at the end a family member would ask "are they smart enough to worship Jehovah?". It made me pretty sad.
I like all people no matter what. Unless one is to be the biggest jerk on the planet, I will be reasonable to them. I saw no religion lines when I was in the church and it drove my parents nuts when I was growing up. -
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Does it give you a creepy feeling when ...
by Frequent_Fader_Miles inyou hear a voice being projected over a loud speaker or microphone?
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Ugh. Its self conditioning.
"Oh a voice! Must find my seat!"
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Help ! Two of my boys (13 and 10) want to become publisher
by Ancientofdays ini know this day would have arrived , sooner or later.. .
i'm inactive from 1 year now, and i go to the meeting just sometime on the sunday.. but my wife is in a very well standing , and the kids are following her at meeting and service field.. .
yesteray evening my wife told me that my 2 boys asked the elder to become publisher.. they are 13 and 10 age.. the elder was very polite , and ask my wife to have my opinion regarding this.. i'm going to talk the oldest boy (not taking in consideration the 10 yrs old one).. i would like not to be so drastic and not offend him, but i have to start some point to tell him some truth regarding this organization .. any suggestion ?.
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Ex Nihilo
"You can go two ways:
- try to fight it, which if you don't do right will trigger their persecution complex and drive them straight towards it
- fully support them, even encourage them, even make them go out when they don't want it, and hope that they realise how dull it is and grow out of it.
I think you should consider #2. You're going to have to play a complex game either way. You're better off if you're not the bad guy. "
This. If you fight it, they will be made heroes as children fighting oppression, and they will be encouraged to do it more. If you are passive, they will figure it out on their own.
What you can do is go to each child, ask them their thoughts, and tell them that they should do what they feel is right. If you like you can get into a discussion on responsibility, but it is up to your discretion. -
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Who thinks Cannabis/Marihuana should be legalised?
by lfcviking ini think in most countries it is illegal to use this drug, so do you think it should be decriminalised, legalised & taxed, made legal for the medical proffesion or should it remain completely illegal?
please state your reasons for your choice.. lfcv.
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Ex Nihilo
I agree booze is much worse than weed. In the area I live in you can carry up to 2oz without getting arrested. So It is not legal, but tolerated.
It is good for chronic pain, works better than codeine, naprox or higher level medications, and for those of us on nauseating medical treatment it keeps you from puking to death, and brings your appetite back.